people sometime misinterpret your good intentions as something with an underlying meaning. this i often experience.
but they interpret it as selfishness. it can be emotionally charging at times
no what people may say or how they may judge us, it's those that are close to your hearts are the one that matters the most.
so, it's ok to swallow your pride and feelings once in a while. it's ok for others to come up with scary stories of you. it's ok for people to make silly assumptions which don't make sense. they don't make you and neither should they break you. life is what you make of it. patience and tolerance will go a long way if used properly and adequately.
learn to be patient and all times despite the ridiculously challenging times. learn to tolerate others because we are all not born the same.
Allah is watching over me and you. i'm sure. =)